How to Address a Duke or Duchess
See also Royal Duke or Duchess
See also Dowager Duchess
Duke | Duchess
—-Examples:
—-—-Duke of Abercorn
—-—-Duke of Argyll
—-—-Duke of Beaufort
—-Envelope or address block on letter or email::
—-—-His/Her Grace
—-—-The Duke/Duchess of (place)
—-—-(Address)
—-—-Their Graces
—-—-The Duke and Duchess of (place)
—-—-(Address)
—-Salutation:
—-—-My Lord Duke:
—-—-Dear Duke/Duchess of (place):
—-—-Dear Duke/Duchess:
—-Conversation:
—-—-Your Grace
— Robert Hickey
Robert Hickey author of “Honor & Respect”
Royal Duke
—-Examples:
—-—-The Duke of Cambridge
—-—-The Duke of York
—-Envelope or address block on letter or email:
—-—-His Royal Highness
—-—-The Duke of (place)
—-—-(Address)
—-Letter salutation:
—-—-Your Royal Highness:
—-Conversation, initially:
—-—-Your Royal Highness
—-Conversation, subsequently:
–——-Sir
Duke Duchess
Royal Duchess
—-Examples:
—-—-The Duchess of Cambridge
—-—-The Duchess of Cornwall
—-Envelope or address block on letter or email::
—-—-Her Royal Highness
—-—-The Duchess of (place)
—-—-(Address)
—-Letter salutation:
—-—-Your Royal Highness:
—-Conversation, initially:
—-—-Your Royal Highness
—-Conversation, subsequently:
—-—-Ma’am
Duke Duchess
Royal Duke and Duchess
—-Example:
—-—-Their Royal Highnesses The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge
—-Envelope or address block on letter or email::
—-—-Their Royal Highnesses
—-—-The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge
—-—-(Address)
—-Letter salutation:
—-—-Your Royal Highnesses:
— Robert Hickey
How to Address a Dowager?
Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Viscountess or Baroness
_________
Dowager
Does one address a Dowager as one would the nobleman’s wife? I am a minister and have a Dowager in my parish. Do you think Duchess (first name) or Dear Duchess of (Somewhere), more suitable? How to address a dowager?
— D.W.
Dear D.W.
British style guides suggest in oral conversation with a duchess you use: Your Grace
—-—-In a salutation: Dear Duchess:
The style guides further suggest in oral conversation with a marchioness, countess, viscountess or baroness you use: Lady (Name): where (Name) is the name of the marquessate, earldom, viscountcy, or barony.
—-—-In a salutation with a marchioness: My Madam: or Dear Lady:
—-—-With a countess, viscountess or baroness: Dear Lady:
But there is a difference is how one ‘describes’ the d0wager or addresses the dowager in writing. This is determined by how the individual dowager styles herself.
In writing – on an envelope or in full introduction – style books present two ways. These formulas works for duchess, marchioness, countess, viscountess and baroness:
Formula #1 …. The Dowager (Full Title)
—-—-Example: The Dowager Duchess (of Place)
—-Formula #2 …. (Name), (Complete name of rank)
—-—-Example: Mary, Duchess (of Place)
—-—-—-Which is the form the dowager Duchess of Devonshire who died in 2014 used:
—-—-—-—-Deborah Cavendish, Duchess of Devonshire
To be certain which formula this dowager prefers, see if she has a personal secretary who can advise which style the individual prefers.
— Robert Hickey How to address a dowager?
See these Related Posts:
–—-—King/Queen
–—-—Duke/Duchess
–—-—Marquess/Marchioness
–—-—Earl/Countess
–—-—Viscount/Viscountess
–—-—Baron/Baroness
–—-—Knight/Dame–—-—Noble Titles: Social Use Only
Robert Hickey author of “Honor & Respect”
When Should You Use the Forms on this Page?
You can use these forms of address for any mode of communication: addressing a letter, invitation, card or Email. (If there are differences between the official and social forms of address, I will have mentioned the different forms.) The form noted in the salutation is the same form you say when you say their name in conversation or when you greet them.
___What I don’t cover on this site are many things I do cover in my book: all the rules of forms of address, about names, international titles, precedence, complimentary closes, details on invitations, place cards, all sorts of introductions, etc. I hope you’ll get a copy of the book if you’d like the further detail.
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— Robert Hickey
Robert Hickey author of “Honor & Respect”
Recommended Resources: The Protocol School of Washington (PSOW) and Protocol and Diplomacy International – Protocol Officers Association (PDI-POA) For more information see the Protocol Resources page.